Some more INTJ stuff

Hey there, intj female here. I am struggling - my long time/commuted man cheated on me. I have him a 2nd chance (which took everything I had in me to do) and then he did it again. I'm having a hard time explaining how once my mind is made up it can't be changed. He's an estj and keeps trying to get me to work it out but there's something in my makeup I can't explain that I once I've reached a decision it won't change. Any suggestions?

Dump him
Cheaters cheat, and trust is not given lightly.

If you can’t trust your partner, then it’s not a healthy relationship. He’s not worth it. You deserve better, and I would be willing to bet that being single is better than being with him.

http://intj-explained.tumblr.com/tagged/friendship

http://intj-explained.tumblr.com/tagged/romance

The INTJ death glare

http://intj-explained.tumblr.com/post/10233359295/the-death-glare